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A Global Number With a Familiar Shape

UNICEF put a hard number on the problem on September 3: by its own estimate, roughly 20 million children, all between 12 and 17, went through some kind of sexually exploitative or abusive experience tied to digital technology within a recent year-long window, spread across 21 countries on four continents. The research, built jointly with the anti-trafficking group ECPAT International and the international police agency INTERPOL under a partnership called Disrupting Harm, is the organization’s most extensive look yet at how phones and apps are being used to target kids.

The new report — Through Children’s Eyes: How Digital Technologies Enable Child Sexual Abuse — draws on two survey waves, the first fielded in 2020 and 2021, the second in 2024 and 2025, reaching about 21,000 children who use the internet regularly, plus 100 young survivors who sat for lengthier interviews.

Where the Abuse Is Actually Happening

Close to 60% of the incidents documented trace back to five familiar names — TikTok, WhatsApp, Snapchat, Instagram and Facebook — while online gaming accounted for a much smaller 14%, the report found. Over 15 million kids said they’d been shown sexual content they never asked to see; something like 9 million described being pushed into conversations that turned sexual, or into sending images they didn’t want to send; and about 4 million had private images of themselves passed around without ever giving the okay.

Perhaps the most uncomfortable finding for parents who assume “stranger danger” is the main threat: 57% of affected children said the person responsible was already someone in their life — a friend, a partner, a family member — while 38% said they first crossed paths with the abuser online, often through a fake profile or a private messaging thread. UNICEF’s executive director, Catherine Russell, cast that pattern as proof that too many kids are processing this alone, since under 1% of the cases studied were ever brought to police, a helpline or a social worker.

Latin America Enters the Data for the First Time

This round of the study added nine countries that had never been part of the research before — four of them in Latin America and the wider Caribbean: Brazil, the Dominican Republic, Colombia and Mexico — plus Serbia, Pakistan, North Macedonia, Montenegro and Armenia. In Colombia, over half of the abuse cases logged were linked specifically to social media use. Mexico’s numbers were especially stark on mental health: kids who’d been through this kind of exploitation described suicidal thoughts at more than eight times the rate of their peers, a spike UNICEF found was matched only in North Macedonia.

One of the testimonies researchers collected came from a young woman in the Dominican Republic — 14 years old when private photos of her started circulating without her okay. Her own words: she “didn’t know how to react” in that moment, one small glimpse of what UNICEF describes as a wider pattern — shame and confusion outweighing anger, and keeping most kids from ever telling anyone.

Why This Story Doesn’t Stop at the Border

None of this is an ocean away from Hispanic households in the U.S. A Pew Research Center survey fielded between late September and early October 2025 found that 34% of Hispanic teens say they check TikTok “almost constantly” — more than triple the 10% rate among white teens, and not far off the 37% recorded among Black teens. A follow-up Pew analysis, published the following spring, found that on TikTok specifically, Hispanic and Black teens send direct messages every day more often than white teens do — the exact kind of private messaging feature UNICEF’s report singles out as a common entry point abusers use to build trust before escalating.

None of this means Hispanic kids are more likely to become victims because of who they are. It just means the screen hours, the daily messages and the images shared all run higher on average in many Latino homes — which raises the odds that any one household will eventually need to know what to do about it.

What UNICEF Wants From Governments and Tech Companies

UNICEF’s report pushes tech companies to bake stronger safeguards directly into their products: restricting how easily adult strangers can message minors, upgrading how abusive material gets flagged and taken down, and switching young users into private accounts by default. It also asks national governments to catch their laws up to reality — covering coercive extortion schemes and sexually abusive material made with AI — and to fund reporting channels that families genuinely trust enough to use.

What Spanish-Speaking Parents Can Do This Week

Because so few children ever tell an adult what happened, child-safety groups say the fix has to start before a crisis, not after one:

• Lean on bilingual tools. NetSmartz en español, a program from the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, offers free lessons built for kids as young as 5 and their parents.
• Name a trusted adult before anything happens. UNICEF’s researchers found that the single biggest reason kids stayed quiet was simply not knowing who to tell.
• Set privacy controls together, not for them. Walk through who can message, tag or follow a child’s account as a shared activity instead of a lecture.
• Respond to a disclosure without panic or blame. Kids who get a calm reaction are far more willing to keep talking and to accept help.
• Know where to report. NCMEC’s CyberTipline, plus the in-app reporting tools on Instagram, TikTok and Snapchat, are available in Spanish and route straight to investigators.